I remember being shocked in the early 90’s listening to plans for a dating site. The focus was on collecting and selling demographics. Even the private info being collected was driven by what sold to advertisers more than what helped people relate to each other
Yes, dating apps have always been a fraud because making a social connection was always secondary to selling you
Damn, I can’t even do this: my dog has worse social skills than I do (we tried but she is a rescue with a hard previous life)