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Cake day: August 5th, 2023

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  • There is no such thing as getting a boob job for yourself.

    You get a boob job because you feel your attractiveness and value as a person or partner is limited by the size of your breasts. You are getting bigger boobs to appeal to another person, real or imaginary. If you feel your value as a person is lower than if you had bigger boobs, you need therapy, not surgery. If someone else is telling you you need bigger breasts to be more attractive, they are toxic and should have no place in your best life.

    Your husband should be providing for you all the external validation you need about your attractiveness. If you feel that he doesn’t value you as much as you would like, talk to him and work together on meeting your validation needs. Keep in mind his perceived lack of adequate interest can be projection or reciprocal due to you not meeting his needs(actually or perceptually), which is common in relationships when things between you have fallen into a comfortable routine.

    Couples therapy can be a fantastic tool to help you if the two of you are having difficulty communicating and understanding the issues you may have and making progress towards mutual satisfaction with the relationship.

    Personal option: To me, a girl with fake breasts is less attractive because she likely has underlying mental health issues that will manifest in other ways that makes her less attractive as a person regardless of how perfect her Ds are.




  • Almost nobody is going to care unless you go places nobody cares about.

    We don’t segregate people by color, but some people self segregate. There are areas with more black people or more white people, but there is no laws that say you or her can’t go somewhere because of skin color.

    I am assuming she is black. There is a small chance that some people will say rude things to one of you because you are with someone of a different color. Don’t confront them, just walk away. The cops would love to ruin their whole day, so govern yourself accordingly.

    We see a lot of Germans in the tourist spots, your accent will be considered adorable and we will love to know where you are from and will likely fail to repeat the name of your home city unless it is Berlin, Frankfort, or Munich. If you are from Bayern, you are from Bavaria. If they ask you to say something in German, “etwas” is funny, but you will have to follow it up with an actual sentence. Throw in an “umgebung”, it’s a fun word to us.

    Also you need to understand that America is very large. Germany is smaller than our states of Illinois and Indiana, look at those states on a map and understand that things are further apart than you may think.

    If you can manage the 2hr drive, Chattanooga has an awesome aquarium with a massive glass walled tank.

    Ask the hotel desk where are some good local spots to get food, but the best places are not in the information pamphlet they may hand you. I hope your pants fit loose, our food can put weight on you very easily if you take in too much of our hedonistic freedom. Tip your servers, that is how they afford to live.

    Ich höffe das Eures Urlaub wunderbar sind und der Amis sind freundlich. Ich weiß das Sie Amerika lieben werden. Mein Deutsch schlecht ist, tut mir leid, es ist zwanzig Jahre her dass ich Deutsch gelernt habe.














  • Second this. Looks like an orb weaver shifting between dimensions to place their surprisingly strong web directly in front of someone’s face as they walk through two objects an arbitrary distance apart.

    I had one that would make it’s web from a trees branches to the ground, the diameter was around 10 ft. It was absurd how hard that little gal was working just to catch a meal.