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Cake day: June 4th, 2023

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  • It allows you to plan out what happens during/around it. For example, should my leisure time the day before be something more fun but cognitively demanding or more chill and relaxing?

    It also allows you to get in the right state of mind for the work. In my experience (is this also an autistic thing? I don’t know), if you’re mentally prepared for something very difficult and unpleasant, it greatly cuts down on how unpleasant it is, sometimes even turning that difficult thing into a fun challenge. If you mentally prepare for something that’s worse than what’s actually ahead, you end up with way too much excess energy and the need to look for problems to solve even when no problems exist.







  • Yes? I get the impression that you mean to disagree with me, but I can’t tell how.

    I don’t know if my explanation of the phenomenon is correct or not. I don’t know much about the science of traffic dynamics. All I know is that when you’re on the road, pretty much everyone ends up at approximately the same speed. That speed can differ relative to the speed limit depending on time of day, road and weather conditions, which road you’re on, etc. and there’s no one to tell me what speed to aim for. I just look at the flow of traffic and follow it. That’s all.









  • Yes, you’ve already said this but it doesn’t answer the question. Repeating yourself won’t change that. What I asked when I originally responded to you was why the simpler alternative of renting at cost isn’t acceptable. So far, you’ve told me

    A tenant never gains anything once the terms of the lease expire […] as long as the price of rent is a positive number.

    […] Paying a non-zero amount of rent is always parasitic.

    Which can mean any of the following:

    1. There are no costs associated with renting so at-cost is 0
    2. You are not aware of what there is to gain from renting over owning
    3. You do not need those benefits yourself and therefore no one else does either
    4. You disagree with the concept of money being an abstraction for physical goods and human labour (There’s something special about owning home equity that is different from having the money to buy that same equity and that can’t be translated to a monetary value?)

    I’ll rule out #1 because you also said

    Then landlords should send me an itemized invoice that details each of the expenses incurred while I’ve been a tenant, a breakdown detailing how any rent payments cover the cost of those expenses, and a payment plan that we can negotiate to ensure both parties are getting fair deals.

    Which means you do acknowledge the existence of a cost to rental units.

    So what is it that you don’t agree with? Is it one of the things I’ve listed, or did I miss something?


  • Can we keep the context of what we’ve previously discussed instead of rewinding the conversation and repeating ourselves? I thought we agreed earlier that it’s fair for tenants to pay for expenses related to usage of the home and it makes sense to distribute that over time across all tenants.

    […] Imagine being the tenant that moves in just as the roof needs replacing and getting hit with a bill in the tens of thousands for a roof that you’re only going to be using for a year or two.

    Then landlords should send me an itemized invoice that details each of the expenses incurred while I’ve been a tenant, a breakdown detailing how any rent payments cover the cost of those expenses, and a payment plan that we can negotiate to ensure both parties are getting fair deals. […]

    It sounds like you understand now how that number comes about and why it isn’t zero, right?

    […] I’ve already told you I don’t agree. Paying a non-zero amount of rent is always parasitic.

    […] What’s this business about itemized bills to make them fair if the bills are zero?

    Landlords don’t do that. Until they do, they’re parasites. […]

    Did I misunderstand what you’re saying here? I understood it as meaning that an itemized bill for your rent with the ability to negotiate in order to come to a fair deal for both parties is sufficient condition to qualify as non-parasitic.

    You can’t convince me that a landlord can provide potentially multiple properties worth of value over the span of a lease

    Nor would I ever try to because I don’t believe they do either.