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  • Well that’s not the definition, so you’re probably not understanding because that’s not what most people mean.

    Even so you can’t imagine why someone would want somebody else dead? Why someone would or could feel that way?

    Hating a person, to me, is like hating a hurricane or a volcano.

    Explain how, please. Because one is uncontrollable nature and the other has free will and chooses to do terrible things.

    I’m not asking how you do it. I’m asking how your comparison makes any sense to you? I can understand not getting upset about things, choosing to, but that doesn’t mean that I don’t find them upsetting.


  • I dunno, what you’re saying seems ungenuine. you can’t name someone you hate because you don’t think about them?

    Maybe you don’t understand what hate means. It doesn’t mean you’re obsessed with disliking them, it means intense dislike.

    It doesn’t mean you spend time thinking about them. I hate(d) certain people in my life and if I was forced into a room with them I’d feel that feeling of intense dislike, but otherwise I don’t think about them. But I won’t pretend I don’t hate anyone just because I’m not actively discussing or thinking/feeling my feelings about that person