The same logic does work on a 3 year old. A parent is not forced to feed it and can have someone remove it. They just don’t call it abortion. https://adoption.com/how-to-give-a-child-up-for-adoption/

Maybe some day a fetus can be removed without killing it, but 3 year olds already have that ability.

“Not my problem” code

I believe you can do this with DAVx5. I have calendars syncing to fossify with it.